Is this the carpenter’s son? – How to stop playing the pretend game
“Is this the carpenter’s son?”
Imagine if Jesus had listened to
The people of Nazareth?
What would have happened
If He’d have played the pretend game?
If you’re a people-pleaser
You know this game well
It’s real easy
Because there’s only one rule
Say “yes” to something
That makes everyone else happy
Is this the carpenter’s son?
“Is this the carpenter’s son?”
It’s a question that’s fully loaded
It points the finger
Straight at Jesus
Letting Him know
That He shouldn’t be in the synagogue, teaching
He should be running His father’s carpentry business
That’s what was
Expected of Him
This…this…ministry stuff
Was totally unacceptable!
“Is this the carpenter’s son?”
“Didn’t we just see His sisters yesterday in the market?”
‘Where did He learn all this?”
Whisperings
And
Gossips
Carrying on
Like they owned Jesus
But, as the saying goes
You can’t please everyone, right?
HOW TO STOP PLAYING THE PRETEND GAME
So, how do you stop playing the pretend game?
Firstly
You need to get honest with yourself
Stop wasting your time and effort
On people who don’t really matter
The people who love you
And respect your choices
Regardless of the outcome of your decision
They are the ones who matter
Yes, we all seek approval
But
When God calls you to something
Your purpose
Which is more valuable
And greater than what people think about you
Is what’s important
I just love the way
Jesus wasn’t interested
In people’s narrow-minded view
Of what He should or shouldn’t do
He never played the pretend game
To gain someone’s approval
Jesus cared about people
No question about that
But, He didn’t pretend that He liked doing something
Just to gain people’s approval
John 5:19
Shows that
In everything Jesus did
God was all the approval He needed
“The truth is that the Son does nothing on His own; all these actions are led by the father.”
So
How do you stop playing the pretend game?
After getting honest with yourself
You need to then get honest with God
Because, like Steven Furtick once said
“God cannot bless who you pretend to be”
You were put on this Earth
For a purpose
And it’s high time
You stopped using all your energy
In trying to win people over
Who are just a ‘stumbling block’
To the call on your life
Because
Only ONE approval matters
And that’s God’s!
FYI
You only get one life
So, don’t waste it
On playing pretend games
Because now is the time, my friend
To rise up
Stop pretending
And
Live a transformed life!
Wendy xo