The Benchwarmers (How being forgotten can make you a better leader)
Ever felt like a benchwarmer?
Well this week’s blog is just for you, my friend
Being a leader can be challenging at times
Especially when you feel forgotten by others
But I’ve discovered that being forgotten can make you a better leader
THE BENCHWARMERS
In school, I wasn’t what you’d call ‘sporty’
When it was time to pick teams, I usually ended up one of the last to be chosen
I’m convinced to this day, if a three legged, one eyed, deaf dog had wondered onto our high school sports field, answering to the name of Lucky…
…They would have picked the dog for the team, instead of me
=)
So, you’re a leader?
And you feel like a benchwarmer?
Awesome!
You are in good company
HOW BEING FORGOTTEN CAN MAKE YOU A BETTER LEADER
In Genesis chapter 40
We find Joseph sitting in prison…waiting
Pharaoh’s chief cupbearer and chief baker had offended Pharaoh, so he threw them into prison
Now it just so happened that it was the same prison Joseph was in. He was serving time for a crime he hadn’t committed
Joseph was put in charge of these men
One morning the chief cupbearer and the chief baker both told Joseph about the dreams they’d had
So, Joseph helped them by telling them what their dreams were about
Leader tip #1
Even though Joseph’s circumstances weren’t ideal, he was still put in charge of people
Know this, that no matter where you find yourself in life, if God has anointed you as a leader it doesn’t matter what your circumstances look like, you are still a leader
True leaders don’t need fancy titles to be a leader
They just lead from whatever circumstances they find themselves in
Leader tip #2
Before Joseph saw his dream that he’s carried in his heart for years come to true, he needed to help other people with their dreams first
Even when you are a benchwarmer, you can still encourage and help others with their dreams
It’s what makes good leaders into great leaders
Back to the story…
Pharaoh decided to release his chief cupbearer and chief baker from prison, because it was his birthday
What a nice Pharaoh. Happy Birthday ruler of Egypt
As they were packing suitcases, ready to leave their damp, dark cells, Joseph hoped that they would remember what he’d done for them and put in a good word to Pharaoh about releasing him also
So,
Joseph waited…
And waited…
For 2 years!
He had truly become a benchwarmer by this time
Probably thinking that he was just going to die in that prison
His God dream left in tatters
Forgotten
Left behind
Broken
Until Pharaoh started having dreams and needed them interpreted
It was only then that the chief cupbearer finally remembered Joseph!
Pharaoh immediately sent for Joseph
Joseph told Pharaoh what the meaning of his dream was
Pharaoh was so blown away that he instantly made Joseph second-in-command over the land of Egypt
(Angel choir)
Leader tip #3
God will elevate you at the right time
The thing about God is that He’s super big on character, rather than title’s when it comes to leading well
FYI
God doesn’t want good leaders
He doesn’t even need great leaders
Say what?
God wants exceptional leaders
So, if you’ve been called to leadership but you feel like a benchwarmer
Chillax
God is working on your character
And He has something for you that will truly
Blow. Your. Mind
Wendy xo